A Dog, a Wheelchair, and a Story of Dedication and Redemption
For Scarsdale resident and writer John Clark, his service dog Lex has become an inspiration.
A black lab named Lex not only came to John Clark’s rescue physically, but also helped him triumph creatively.
“On either side of the driveway out there we’ve got shag bark hickory trees. If you’re a baseball player, or you know baseball players, hickory is a hard wood and that’s what they make baseball bats out of. Well, those nuts are very hard. There was a nut lodged between two of the flagstones in the walkway and I didn’t see it,” says Clark, a Scarsdale resident who was diagnosed with progressive spinal muscular atrophy, type 3 and is in a wheelchair.
“So I ran over it and it should have split. It should have smashed and there should have been no more to say about it. But it didn’t and it sent me into an uncontrolled spin where I wound up wedged against the stucco wall, hanging out of the wheelchair. With three right wheels off the ground. I’m hanging there over the precipice of this driveway and [Lex] went into action without being told.”
The dog moved from the right to left side of the chair, pushing it until it was straight, according to Clark.
“So, I figured extra kibble and extra kudos would not be enough. I had to do something to acknowledge what Lexie had done,” he says. “I hadn’t written any poetry in a long, long time. But now it was the time to do so.”
Clark began working on a series of sonnets that would eventually become The Joy of Lex: Life With a Service Dog, a 125-page book that includes 56 poems and photos.
He was inspired to write about other topics as well, including growing up in the Bronx and even NASA, according to Clark.
“All this as a result of what he had done for me. I was writing positive things and it felt good,” he says.
Clark was diagnosed with progressive spinal muscular atrophy in the mid-70s, although he had been experiencing symptoms for years.
“[It’s] a diminution of the nerve messages to the muscles. And what happens is, since the messages don’t get through to the muscles, the muscles shut down and stop working,” he says, describing the disease.
It eventually became tough for the Bronx native to continue teaching 6th grade, his career for two decades.
But retiring from teaching didn’t mean he left academics behind. Soon, Clark, who has an undergraduate degree from Fordham and a masters degree from City College, enrolled in a home-based program at Queens College, where he eventually earned a masters in creative writing and English.
After taking an Irish poetry course, he was encouraged to continue taking classes in the genre.
“I found that I couldn’t write about sunsets and dewdrops and bluebells. They tell you to write what you know, so I started writing about being disabled,” he says.
His poetry of choice? The sonnet.
“It’s a challenge to get in there, do my thing, and get out in 14 lines. That’s one of the reasons why I love it so much,” he says.
In 1998, Clark, who types using a mouth stick, had the first of his poems published in The Recorder, of the American-Irish Historical Society. A few years later, more were published.
And then he says, “I really didn’t do much for a long time until I met Lexie.”
Clark’s brother-in-law was the first to suggest he apply for a service dog. While Clark was receptive to the idea, he says, “…I didn’t think I’d get accepted because I didn’t know—as I said, I thought there were folks who needed the dog more than I did.”
Clark did apply, through a program called Canine Companions for Independence, a California-based non-profit.
Six years ago, Clark was accepted into the training program and was eventually paired with Lex, his first choice pup.
For his family, including his wife Ginny and two children, Christine and John, Lex has had a positive effect on Clark.
“I think he’s much happier. And not only is he a service dog, he’s a good companion. Because if I’m out during the day or when I go to work in the morning, then he has someone,” says Ginny.
“Our daughter Chris once said, ‘Dad this dog has got the magic stuff because I’ve never seen you smile so much.’ That’s in the book somewhere,” says Clark.
The book, The Joy of Lex, which was published by Clark’s Black Lab Books, includes an introduction by best-selling author Dean Koontz, who is an “honorary” board member at CCI and had a dog named Trixie.
“Trixie is rather literary and wrote a book called Life is Good,” says Clark. “So my literary-minded lab here wrote to Trixie and sent a couple poems and asked Trixie where we might get these published. And so a conversation ensued with Dean and Dean said he’d be glad to write the introduction to the book.”
Clark says that while the book is chronological, it also “ just shows you what this dog can do. The work that he does. The work that he does picking up my mouth stick if I drop it, turning on lights, that sort of thing. It also shows that he’s got a sense of humor. It shows his marvelous personality.”
The Joy of Lex isn’t the only book Clark has written. He penned a 500-page book called The Chronicles of Saint Patrick: The Captivity—which he spent over two years researching—and another 150 sonnets called Othering. And now, he is currently working on a sequel to the book about St. Patrick.
And what does Clark hope people know about his relationship with Lex?
“Well, I hope at one level they can understand that dogs and animals are a lot smarter than we think they are. This dog knows 70 commands, has a vocabulary of probably 125 words or more, on the one level,” he says. “On another level, I would hope that individuals who are disabled would contact CCI or other organizations like that to see if they qualify to have a dog like this because they’re certainly going…these dogs are going to enrich their lives.”
"The Joy of Lex" is available on the Black Lab Books website, Amazon, Barnes & Noble, Borders and Atlas Books. Signed, inscribed copies are available by emailng John Clark at j.t.clark@verizon.net.
Lizzie Hedrick
7:40 am on Sunday, April 17, 2011
Great story!
Barbara Eisner
11:14 am on Sunday, April 17, 2011
Wonderful story and great dog. I would like to add that the word "kibble" concerned me. There are many "kibbles" on the market but not all are created equal. It is my hope that Lex does not eat a kibble that has soy, wheat, or corn as these are just cheap fillers that pet food companies add to increase their profits. With that said, some of the latest information in the veterinary field is that canned foods may be better than the dry food counterparts. Real food ( that we eat) with the proper supplements and calcium added is yet the best.
In short, be aware of the "kibble" that you feed your beloved fur friend. Read ingredients!!!!!!
Barbara Eisner, Doctor of Veterinary Medicine
John Thomas Clark
10:58 am on Tuesday, April 19, 2011
Dear Dr. Eisner, DVM:
Delighted you liked the story about Lex. Please do not be concerned over the word "kibble." I employed it in the metaphorical sense. In using that word I was going for the alliteration of kibble & kudos. I don't fribble over kibble where Lex is concerned; he is fed the best food available.
All the best - John Thomas Clark
agnes Aliberto
1:43 pm on Sunday, April 17, 2011
Enjoyed reading this story. You make Bronxville Patch The BEST !
Linda Rehkopf
2:47 pm on Sunday, April 17, 2011
Wonderful story. I have always had a soft spot for my Labs, because I know how hard they work. John and Lex, I hope y'all have many more wonderful adventures together.
John Thomas Clark
12:00 pm on Tuesday, April 19, 2011
Dear Linda Rehkopf,
Thank you for your kind comments and good wishes.
All the best - John Thomas Clark
Diane Buccheri
5:22 pm on Sunday, April 17, 2011
As a friend to both Mr. Clark and Lex, I must say you write the story well. Lex was new to Mr. Clark, fresh from graduating when he righted the wheelchair and this was one task he was not taught to perform. He thought of it himself.
THE JOY OF LEX: Life with a Service Dog is a wonderful, heart-warming story of a man in the depths brought to joy by his dog. It made me cry and laugh. And, for me, both Mr. Clark and Lex are heros.
Ray Powell
7:39 pm on Sunday, April 17, 2011
Inspiring story about an exceptional man and his exceptional canine associate. THANK YOU!
Mary Anne Rittenhouse
8:15 pm on Sunday, April 17, 2011
Mr. Clark inspires with his incredible wit and humility. He has taken the proverbial bushel of lemons that landed squarely in his lap and squeezed them with all his might. I hope he continues to write his gorgeous sonnets and that he and Lex share many, many years as the best of friends . Thank you for sharing a piece of their love story!
Cheryl Schwartz
8:54 am on Monday, April 18, 2011
As a puppy raiser for CCI, a friend to Ginny and Tom and a dog sitter for Lex, I am thrilled to see a story that not only shows an example of a remarkable man, but that of a remarkable dog, who inspires the man to reach for his dreams and not let his disability slow him down. I am so proud of Tom and Lex and wish much more continued success. CCI, keep doing what you do to raise beautifully trained, helpful and loving companions for wonderful people like Tom.
Stephen Robin
9:53 am on Monday, April 18, 2011
A wonderful article about an inspirational man and his extraordinary canine friend! I have had the good fortune of being both a colleague and a life-long friend of John, as well as someone who has enjoyed the companionship of my own pets for most of my adult life. My friendship with John has made me a better teacher, a better chess player, a better writer, and most significantly, a better person. And if I ever start feeling a little down or overwhelmed , a few sonnets from, "The Joy Of Lex," is frequently all it takes to put me back on track.
--Steve Robin
Patricia Fleiger
10:43 am on Monday, April 18, 2011
I wish Mr. Clark and Lexie many years of good health and happiness together. There is nothing like the companionship of a loving and faithful dog. This was a wonderful story. Mr. Clark please keep up the good work writing these wonderful stories about Lexie. Patricia F.
John Thomas Clark
12:03 pm on Tuesday, April 19, 2011
Dear Patricia Fleiger,
Thank you for your kind comments and good wishes.
All the best - John Thomas Clark
Donna Nevin
2:23 pm on Saturday, April 23, 2011
Donna Nevin
Very nice article about an amazing man with a amazing dog and an amazing family. They have always inspired me, and I'm happy to have them as my friends for many years.
Jenny Monteiro
7:01 pm on Thursday, April 28, 2011
A very inspiring story!
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